Some women (and men) just don’t like the whole idea of oral sex. You are not alone. If you really are repulsed by it, don’t agree to it. There are lots of other avenues, though I do encourage you to try if you possibly can. Especially at 50+, intercourse loses it’s ferocity, and can be [...]
The question was asked this way: I read all about dildos and vibrators, got 2 of them, still do not use them well. Help! Vibrators and dildos are play toys. Like any toy, some will attract you, others won’t. Vibrators and dildos are great toys for both men and women, but they aren’t necessary for [...]
Ah, the low libido. Too tired for sex? You’ve always been too tired for sex? You don’t care if you ever have sex or not? What’s the big deal about how many times a week the average person has sex? – it’s not on your top ten list, for sure. You dread the thought of [...]
In the last three days, I have had two men over 50 ask me about sex and cancer – and their faded libido after cancer treatments. No one wants to talk about sex and cancer. Not the doctors. Not the nurses. Not the social workers. Not friends. Not even partners. The subject of sex is [...]
Little by little. Good kissing is an art – it doesn’t happen automatically. Your concern is very common: He slobbers when we kiss. She won’t open her lips. He presses too hard. She crams her tongue down my throat. He opens his mouth too wide, and I want to laugh. She avoids kissing me. He [...]
For men over 50, it’s a real problem, this Viagra, Cialis, Levitra issue. Here’s the facts (show this to him!): Most men actually don’t need to use a drug at all, but enter Madison Avenue ad campaigns, and BINGO – they cannot perform without it. Perform is the operative word! After 50, the 20something need to perform [...]
Yes. And no. Let me explain: masturbation that becomes an all consuming hobby, and prevents you from having healthy sex with your partner is dangerous. If you find you cannot enjoy sex with your partner, and that you crave self pleasuring to the point that you dread sex with a partner – you have a problem. [...]
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