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You’re not getting older, you’re getting started!

Welcome to Get A Second Wind where we make sense of who we are as women at midlife and beyond – in our most personal lives. Dating? Long term relationship flat? Tired of body changes? You’ll find solutions here! Join the laughter, the sharing, the zestiness, and open up delicious new possibilities!

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  • Body Image, For Women, Identity, Sensuality, Wisdom

    Posted on March 26th, 2012

    Written by Kat

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    Own It! It’s all about the ‘tude.

    It’s all about the ‘tude, ladies.

    I did a local radio show this morning in Sonoma (KSVY) and had 2 male co-hosts. We talked about beautiful women who have “it” – classic beauties who Own It! You can guess the usual suspects … Susan Sarandon, Raquel Welch, Meryl Streep, Lauren Bacall. Plastic surgery notwithstanding, all of these women exude self confidence.

    We decided the poster child for beauty is Sophia Loren. Yes, ok, she was born with a predisposed genetic makeup to simply be magnificently beautiful for a lifetime. Nonetheless, she’s the embodiment of easy beauty.

    We hear much about celebrities fighting depression, and many of the names mentioned above have had their personal lives ripped apart by public discussion of depression. Not Sophia! Read her secret in Daily Mail – quoted less than a year ago, at age 76.

    Sophia, who once famously claimed she ate a plateful of pasta a day, adding ‘everything you see, I owe to spaghetti’, said recently her slim figure is down to a combination of exercise and positive thinking.

    She said: ‘I always wake up early and jump out of bed – sometimes not wanting to, because one can always find an alibi not to exercise – and then I take a walk for an hour.

    ‘And as I walk round the park I always think, “Maybe round the corner I am going to find something beautiful.”

    ‘I always think positively. It is very rare that you find me in a mood that is sad or melancholic.’

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    How we present ourselves makes all the difference. Look at her! Shoulders back, big stride. My male co-hosts and I agreed, it’s the ‘tude that makes us spectacular, vital, juicy, and beautiful. Next time you walk away from something as mundane as the grocery store checkout, throw that head back, strut slightly, and let ‘em look. Own it!

    I would love to hear your thoughts!  Share them here.

     

  • Body Image, For Women, Health, Identity, Wisdom

    Posted on March 2nd, 2012

    Written by Kat

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    Meryl’s Dress – Dignified and Daring

    Look at Meryl Streep on Sunday, at the Academy Awards.  We all agree – she’s gifted, sexy, brilliant, beautiful, feminine, strong. And, I would add: daring. I found it surprisingly refreshing to see a different kind of daring from her – her beaming visage, first, rather than her cleavage, her legs, her curves. It takes courage to be covered up in Tinseltown, perhaps more courage than baring it all. To watch her flow to the stage in that dress, gracefully and graciously sent a message to our youth centric mania: I am comfortable in my own skin as a mature accomplished actress and I don’t have to succumb to skin rules to be magnificently elegant and sexy. Continue Reading…

  • Active Adults 50+, Body Image, For Men, For Women, Sensuality

    Posted on December 16th, 2011

    Written by Kat

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    Walk (and Dance) Like a Brazilian. Sensuous. And Seasoned!

    Let’s take a lesson from the CEO of party-down countries: Brazil. My colleague, Dr. Marty Klein, PhD. has written a fascinating article about observations on a recent visit to Brazil, “A Word About Brazilian Women”  My lands! (as my mother would say) – where did they learn to move like that? As Dr. Klein enjoys “the women move parts of their bodies that I didn’t realize could move in quite that way. They dance with their shoulders, their necks, their hips, followed by their feet. Their torso practically comes along for the ride. I’m certain I wasn’t the only observer reminded of sex.” Continue Reading…

  • Active Adults 50+, Body Image, Dating, For Men, For Women, Intimacy, Relationships

    Posted on November 11th, 2011

    Written by Kat

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    What Actually Happens in Intimacy (Sexuality) Consulting?

    Yesterday, I had a glorious lunch at my weekly Rotary meeting. Out of the blue, the family law attorney next to me asked, “So what do you actually DO in Intimacy Consulting? ”

    Right out of the chute, let’s get this straight: Deciding to work on this area of your life is very brave and courageous. It takes a person (or partners) of character to ask for help and suggestions in this arena of intimacy and sexuality, the most sensitive arena of our lives.  I always commend my clients for taking the first step – picking up the phone and calling. From that point on, it’s a team effort and the pressure is off of you to do it all alone. We work on this together.

    Continue Reading…

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