Ok, guys. Step up to the plate here. Help me out. Here’s some information that I think is just flat out wrong. Let’s set the record right.
I came across this article that’s telling us that there is a spray to deaden nerves and slow down premature ejaculation in older men! Seriously? In all my years of working with men over 55, I think I’ve met a lot of men who would like to have that problem! About.com usually has great stuff from the longevity editor, Mark Stibich but this time he’s missed the mark. If I’m wrong here, help me out. I’m just sayin’… If any of you have “friends” who have this problem, would you let us know?
According to Mark, PE (premature ejaculation) is right up there with ED (erectile dysfunction). OK, we all know from ‘way back in the days of Bob Dole and the pencil, that ED can be a problem, though not nearly as big a problem as the drug industry would like us to think it is . But premature ejaculation? The fact is that as men age, sensitivity decreases. Perhaps since an enlarged prostrate can contribute to PE (also known as rapid ejaculation in our professional field) in younger men, Mark is thinking that older men will experience PE, since the prostate tends to enlarge in many men later if life? I think not.
Reality is that PE is generally has emotional causes. Fear of failure of performance is a big piece. In later life, we are working to take the emphasis off performance, and on to pleasure.
Getting an old fashioned rock hard erection may be nice, but it’s not necessary for pleasure. You can get pleasured in many ways, say most older women, and proving your manhood through your member’s (as described in many romance novels!) performance is just one of dozens of ways to pleasure.
Net-net for me is that this information in Mark’s article is just flat out wrong. Guys, let me know. Are you really looking for a spray to help you lose sensitivity late in life?
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