Short of mixing in barbiturates, I can’t think of anything you can put in his/her food. Be wary of any food or supplement that claims to cut off your sex drive. I guarantee you that they are bogus! Sailors of old put saltpeter in their food, thinking it cut down their sex drive (though, most likely, they secretly found willing partners amongst themselves). It simply doesn’t work, and it’s dangerous.
So, you don’t want sex and your partner does. You are sick of him/her pulling at you, stroking you, biting you, begging you … and you are tired of succumbing to his/her need for sex, right? Unfortunately, as we age, sex wanes for us at different rates, and there’s frequently an imbalance between partners. However, other than slamming him/her into a cold shower, the only remedy is the golden rule of 3 for sex: communication, communication, communication.
Be honest. You can come to an agreement about when, where, how much, etc. Sometimes, sex can happen for the 2 of you, and YOU don’t need to participate at all. Most high libido people love to be exhibitionists. Let him/her perform for you, and you can just watch. (Be careful not to fall asleep, and be prepared to ooooo and ahhhhh occasionally.) Toys and creativity come into the play here, too. Remember, sex does not have to include intercourse to be erotic and titillating!
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