In this blog at the Firestarter Store, you will find sex toys that are titillating, but easy to use, and premier quality. Be careful in purchasing personal products. There are NO REGULATIONS for sex toys or lubricants. Your knowledge and my reviews in the Firestarter Store are what will protect you from sometimes dangerous products. Watch out for outrageous claims – they are just that. Nothing will give you a bigger penis for more than a few minutes, max. Nothing that you can legally buy will give you more sensation on your clitoris for more than a few minutes.
Start with a good lubricant. I like Slippery Stuff. Don’t use any that have sugar in them. They get sticky quickly. Yuk. Men – use olive oil for masturbation – it’s the best!, but you CAN NOT penetrate your woman’s vagina after it’s on you. It’s unsafe for her and can cause big problems.
Everyone, men and women, need a good vibrator and dildo. Forget the fancy stuff. Get a good, straight, solid vibrator to start. Then, you can branch out to “the rabbit”, “the porpoise”. Men – turn it on low and run it over your penis when masturbating. Women, get one with variable speed and don’t put it directly on your clitoris at first – it may be too strong. For starters, hard plastic is best. Some of the soft plastics have hazardout chemicals in them.
Your first dildo should be basic, as well. If you buy from a reputable store, you can get dildos made of a substance that feels like a real penis – minus the warmth of the human body and a person attached to it, of course. For both men and women, get a normal size – 4 to 6 inches long and about 1 1/2 inches wide – to start.
A note about illegal substances (drugs like ecstasy, “uppers”, etc.). There are some highly dangerous drugs that can enhance sensation for several hours, but they are highly addictive, and when you come down from the high, you might be so depressed you are suicidal. Some people say the marijuana enhances sex, and others say it numbs them. Alcohol is definitely a depressant though it does take away inhibitions. It will seriously numb your sensations and make erections very difficult if you drink alot! People over 50 can’t metabolize alcohol as quickly as those in their 20′s, and many of my clients find that it just makes them sleepy. Forget the passionate ripping off of clothes and firey, frantic sex after a bottle or two of wine! For the most part, that’s in the movies. If you want to be at your sexual optimum, don’t drink, or only have one drink.
Get A Second Wind
Tips & Tricks Newsletter
Our sexuality is the secret ingredient that keeps us alive, vital, beautiful,
and energized for a lifetime.