Some women (and men) just don’t like the whole idea of oral sex. You are not alone. If you really are repulsed by it, don’t agree to it. There are lots of other avenues, though I do encourage you to try if you possibly can. Especially at 50+, intercourse loses it’s ferocity, and can be disappointing for many, even with Viagra, et al. Many couples revisit oral sex because it feels so good (if you can relax with it), it’s so very intimate, and it’s erotic and sexy and hot! If your partner likes it and you don’t – AND you are willing to try some new ways to make him happy, it can be a fresh zing to your lovemaking. Try this: First, talk to your partner, date, lover, etc. Tell him that you are not comfortable, but would like to GET comfortable. Ask him preferred techniques. He will tell you what he likes. For more techniques, contact me (Kat Forsythe) by email: info@getasecondwind.com . I will talk you through suggestions and wonderful techniques!
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