Yes. And no. Let me explain: masturbation that becomes an all consuming hobby, and prevents you from having healthy sex with your partner is dangerous. If you find you cannot enjoy sex with your partner, and that you crave self pleasuring to the point that you dread sex with a partner – you have a problem. Healthy masturbation lets you enjoy yourself and your own body immensely, and it helps you learn what you like – and what you don’t like. It allows you to fantasize while you play with yourself. You can share that information with your partner, or keep it to yourself, but it does not make you want to stay away from your partner. Healthy masturbation is just one item on a menu of healthy sexual activiities, just as joint sex with a partner provides a host of choices of activities. Even if you are single, masturbation is healthy when it causes you to fully enjoy your body, and fill a need for pleasuring. However, if you find yourself staying home, and masturbating at the cost of being with other people – not just having sex, but just being social, masturbation has become an unhealthy avoidance of necessary interactions with others. One more point: some of the hottest sex comes from sharing and watching each other perform your favorite masturbation techniques.
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